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Explore what it really means to be "woke" by experiencing the transformational effects of recognizing your purest Self in everything you see and do.

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Unlock your primal force and develop mastery of your energies by using Tantric technology to achieve a deepened understanding of the sexual self.

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Learn how your intimate relationships and conscious sexual union can be powerful doorways to deep growth and Self-realization.


The 12-Week Guide to Becoming the Masculine Machine You Know You Already Are



“I’m 52 now, and I’ve never had a more satisfying sex life.

Before my first round of this course, I mostly avoided sex with my wife unless we had both had a few drinks. I relied on watching porn for my own excitement. My routine was always the same, and I actually thought that was enough for me.

Halfway through the course, I was already blown away by how much pleasure I’d been missing out on for my whole life.

By the end, I felt like a teenager again. Not to say that I was constantly looking for sex. Not at all. It’s just that I was having fun again. Like my world had opened up and sex was a relaxed exploration instead of a tension-filled duty. Oh, and my wife is pretty happy too.” 

Bill P.

"The first module really blew my mind! There was so much in just that week.

The 'Who is the Tantric Man' meditation—I could have just used that every day for the full 4 weeks."

Andrew L.


Get the complete guide to upgrading your system in 12 weeks.

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You'll begin by experiencing the very thing that is most masculine, which is to become aware of being aware. It is the re-discovery of who and what you really are. From this foundation you will be able to clearly identify the patterns which have severed you from the power and depth of your purest Self. Empowered with new insight and clear direction, you will continue with the ultimate re-calibration and restoration of your entire life.

  • Discover the unshakable core of Consciousness that is the base of your most authentic masculine Self.
  • Learn a foundational step-by-step map for higher living to keep you on track, and your heart + mind clear.
  • Gain new insight into the nature of the Self with the the support of authentic, direct-to-the-source techniques from the Tantras.



It would be rare for us to find a human that has made it to adulthood free from the traumatic effects of parental absence, abuse, loss, or sickness. Oftentimes, these events are so overwhelming to our young systems that we are unable to respond in healthy ways, and instead use coping mechanisms to ensure our safety and survival.

These survival energies become lodged in the system, causing a lasting imprint in the body's cells, nerves, and deep mind. They become a part of the identity we subconsciously build for ourselves, and they negatively influence our reactions to the situations we are faced with in our adult lives.

This module invites us to walk towards freedom by re-negotiating the stuck energies of the past.

  • Become aware of and begin to address the long lasting effects of attachment, relational, and sexual trauma.
  • Restore a loving relationship with your inner child.
  • Begin to acknowledge and address addiction, including the detrimental effects of the porn-saturated body and mind.
  • Develop a whole new attitude and awareness of your relational-sexual Self, and the relational-sexual Self of your partners.
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Without regular system discharges, grounding and re-calibration, we become weakened, anxious and eventually sickened by dis-ease. In this module, you will be provided with a clear blueprint to build your foundation of energetic vitality and eventual mastery.

  • Discover the essential nature and value of regular nervous system discharges, re-calibrations and grounding.
  • Develop sensitivity to the many ways in which you leak and suppress your energy by understanding how it can be dislodged, cultivated, circulated and, stored. 
  • Learn how to to structurally de-armour the tightness and tension in your body that is disrupting the free-flow of your primordial (sexual) energy.
  • Experience the cleansing and balancing effects of Tantric breath-work.


This is so central to Tantra, Yoga, and being human that you could almost consider it to be the most important stop on our 12-week journey. But we won't say that... the content in the other modules is just as essential! Regardless, you will learn how to re-orient yourself to, and comfortably reside within, the central channel of life-energy.

  • Gain access to your energetic core through direct experience within the twelve-chakra system.
  • Learn straight-from-the-source Tantric technologies to unlock and awaken your life-energy.
  • Receive techniques and technologies to last a lifetime.
  • Develop true energetic and spiritual Self-mastery as you learn to charge your system with the concentrated electricity of your own life force.
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In this module, you'll begin applying all that sensitivity and awareness you developed in the first four modules to your sexual beliefs, sensations and energy. Finally you can show up with the sense of solid confidence that comes from deeply knowing your true Self, and becoming free of the fear and anxiety that have come as the result of your past.

  • Go beyond ejaculation retention tips & tricks that other programs offer to become freely (multi) orgasmic.
  • Finally resolve your tension and sexual anxiety to become free of common dysfunctions, like erectile difficulties and premature ejaculation.
  • Learn the subtle secrets to cultivating and directing your powerful sexual energy for maximum pleasure, health, and vitality.


Your relationship can be a powerful catalyst for joy, pleasure and spiritual Self-realization- AND it can be the most challenging and uncomfortable part of your life! Most of us simply lack the understanding of the universal dynamics at play within ourselves and our relationships. Then, rather than healing and growing, we end up hurt, frustrated, and resentful. Often we end up moving further and further away from what we really want. Men are generally NOT experiencing the relationships they think they want, and I'm going to teach you why...

  • Become aware of your attachment wounds and begin addressing the toxic behavioural patterns that are blocking you from forming strong connections with others.
  • Open a doorway to experience empathy for the collective feminine sexual trauma (which affects us all).
  • Gain a clear understanding of Masculine and Feminine polarity, then learn how to use it to create fire in the bedroom and function in the family room.
  • Become clearer about what our partners actually want, both inside the bedroom and out. (It's probably not what you think... Why didn't we learn this in school?)
  • Have some fun and learn some new techniques, then go practice and explore!
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"I didn’t know what to expect from this course. I never do yoga or anything like that. I don’t even meditate.

My girlfriend actually suggested that I take it and I said I’d give it a try if she would do all the partner exercises with me.

Not sure how to say this, but I think that it worked out really well for both of us. Lol”

Dylan P.

"I registered for The Tantric Man as I wanted to overcome the embarrassing shackles of premature ejaculation. I wanted to develop the ability to perform hours-long lovemaking sessions like musician Sting supposedly has mastered. The Tantric Man provided techniques to gain confidence and stamina in the bedroom, but I feel it has equipped me with tools for so much more.

During and after the course I feel I've come away as a better human and my self worth has greatly improved, something I've struggled with for the majority of my life.

I would highly recommend this course to all men looking to make improvements in all aspects of their personal and spiritual growth."

- P.G.


for only three monthly payments of $197

  • A complete guide to lasting personal growth
  • Life-changing practices starting in the first week
  • Freedom from your old patterns
  • Sexual confidence and mastery of the Self
  • Live 1:1 sessions to support your unique needs
  • Lifetime access


→ I’ll get you started on the #1 daily habit, the only practice you need for the rest of your entire life. It’s in the first module because it’s THAT important

→ You'll receive meditations from the Tantras, building a solid foundation of presence and giving you more patience and understanding for your partners, your children, your parents, and, most importantly, yourself.

→ Your accountability and commitment are an integral part of this course, increasing your confidence at work and at home.

→ During the 12 weeks, you'll have access to private email support from a Tantric woman. Ask any question that comes up and she will expertly guide you from a female's perspective.

→ Your romantic relationships - current and/or future - will be transformed by your personal growth. Learn how to touch, talk to, and relate to your partners in ways you weren't taught by watching your parents for all those years.


LIVE 1:1 Personal Sessions with Aaron

Each month, a limited number of men are invited into this program to accommodate the private sessions. 

As a course member, your transformation is of ultimate importance.

These sessions include somatic explorations of your personal struggles, exercises to support your growth, plus the opportunity ask questions relevant to your life.



The private session I did was beyond valuable. It’s so rare to get that one-on-one attention in the online world, but Aaron was able to give me guidance on some stuff I was having trouble with for a very long time. I feel like I’m a better parent and son after working through these things.” - B.H.

FAQ: But what about ...

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[Tantric + Somatic Technologist]

I've been refining this masculine system for over 16 years. When I started teaching men like you, I realized that this system can work for any of us: married or single, gay or straight, young or old.

I began my own journey with a keen interest in the profoundly spiritual potential of human relationship and through the study and application of the Tantric and Yogic sciences.

After much obsessive practice and the discovery that teaching, for me, was akin to breathing, I received a grace-bestowed transmission (Śaktipāta) that reactivated my yogic mission to act as a vessel for teaching and a support for healing.

For the last 16 years, I've continued to (obsessively) study, practice, apply and teach the science of Tantric Yoga, somatic technologies, the internal martial art of QiGong, and the Yoga of Conscious Partnership.

What I discovered will blow you away! It turns out that what we really are isn't what most of us think at all. 

Equally as mind-blowing is that sex and relationships don't work the way we might think!

It took me over 16 years, a few great teachers (and many not-so-great), co-leading a family of 8, plenty of major life-fails, addiction, plus serious personal + relational trauma AND recovery, but I've finally "perfected" these Mechanisms of Masculinity and I want to share my expertise with you. 

Want to learn more about me and the Aum Institute of Tantra? Click Here

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