sex and intimacy coaching
GO DEEPER THAN TALK THERAPY COULD EVER TOUCH.
YOUR SAFELY GUIDED JOURNEY TO SEXUAL SOVEREIGNTY BEGINS HERE
RECLAIM YOUR BODY, EMPOWER YOUR VOICE, AND UNLOCK YOUR PLEASURE POTENTIAL
Have your past traumas, relationships, and sexual encounters left you feeling disconnected from your body?
Do you want to enjoy intimate touch and sex, but just can't figure out how to get there?
Sexual and relational trauma is insidious. It comes in many forms and has many faces. The imprints left in the body and mind can make it difficult to be intimate with a loved one, or to enjoy pleasurable sexual touch.
Feelings of hopelessness have overshadowed the possibility of healing. It may even feel like it's time to give up on sex and intimacy all together.
We know. We've been there. We've been stuck in the loop too! We know how difficult it is to break the patterns to create new ones.
What you are experiencing has been experienced by many others before you. There is a way to healing. The possibility of pleasure is a reality.
Your sexual health craves your attention and healing, no different than any other part of your self. It is part of your return to wholeness. It is a part of your spirit.
If you experience numbness or pelvic pain, lack of desire, inability to communicate, freezing up, hypersensitivity to touch, aversion to intimacy, erectile difficulties, premature ejaculation, or addiction to sex and pornography, then it's a good time to begin your sexual healing journey.
With a well defined container created by a safe and knowledgable trauma-informed somatic practitioner and intimacy coach, your capacity for experiencing welcomed sexual touch and deepened intimacy can be increased.
Intimacy can be a reality. Yes! Especially for you!
You'll begin by establishing a strong sense of bodily boundaries and autonomy, and will soon be able to recognize and communicate your desires to experience more of what you really want ... and less of what you don't want.
Doesn't this sound like freedom?
IMAGINE FEELING SO SAFE AND SUPPORTED THAT YOU'RE ABLE TO RELAX AND ENJOY SEX!
"I thought I was literally untouchable, and nothing was going to change that. I've just experienced too much pain from past relationships and sexual experiences. I'm only 41 and I had basically given up hope on ever enjoying touching myself or being touched by my partner. I was scared out of my mind to go to my first session, but the work I've done with Aaron and Alissa has changed that. I've begun to experience pleasure for the first time in my life. I'm forever grateful to them both." - K.H
HEAL SEXUAL TRAUMA TO FEEL SAFE IN YOUR BODY
The past has been known to leave a lasting imprint on the body and mind.
If your early sexual experiences were uncomfortable or painful, then it can be difficult to experience your body as a safe, friendly home.
Our sessions provide you with the knowledge, the support, the time, and the space you deserve to somatically experience and resolve the harmful effects of past sexual and relational trauma from your nervous system.
Finally experience safely feeling your body.
RESOLVE SEXUAL DYSFUNCTIONS WITHOUT DRUGS
Wouldn't it feel amazing to be intimately touched or penetrated without pelvic pain?
Can you imagine feeling free of the shame of not being able to achieve an erection, or not being able to choose when or if to ejaculate?
Most sexual dysfunctions exist due to deep inner tension as a result of trauma, compulsive behaviour, toxic sexual beliefs, shame, worry, and anxiety.
Our work is designed to gently and somatically dissolve away deeply-layered patterns of physical and mental tension from the body/mind, so you can be you again.
Become free from the pain and the shame so you can fully enjoy your naturally orgasmic self.
UNLOCK YOUR BODY'S CAPACITY FOR PLEASURE
When the past has left you disconnected from your body, you become numb to the vast palette of sensational experience available to you.
The fantastical idea of experiencing your own desire, pleasure and erotic energy may seem like a distant reality.
We teach you the tools to somatically reconnect the pieces of the body/mind that are preventing the full expression of your erotic self.
You may be surprised to discover a fountain of desire and pleasure within you, just waiting to be unlocked.
FEEL MORE DESIRE TO BE INTIMATE WITH YOUR PARTNER
You know the hopeless feeling of going in circles with your partner, struggling to figure out how to be intimate together.
What once felt so effortless and exciting, now feels like a heavy expectation.
The more you try and stumble, the harder it gets, and the possibility of desire, sex, and intimacy moves further and further away.
The cycle of it all feels daunting and painful. Hopeless, even ...
We provide you with the guidance and the tools to tap into the source of desire that exists within your body, so that you can offer that gift to a person of your choosing.
GO DEEPER THAN TALK THERAPY COULD EVER TOUCH.
SEX + INTIMACY COACHING SESSIONS
MEET YOUR SEX & INTIMACY COACHES:
AARON + ALISSA
Together they form a powerful supportive team, experienced in Tantric & Somatic therapies to guide you through your sexual and relational healing journey.
Providing equal parts solid masculine support and tender loving feminine care.
You may benefit from working with Aaron, Alissa, or both. Your needs are unique to you.
APPLY TO WORK WITH US
Due to the sensitive nature of this work, and our full schedule, it is important that our intentions are aligned.
We can't work with everyone!
If you're ready to take that next step in your healing journey, then we invite you to fill out the form below with as much detail as you feel comfortable sharing. We've heard it all and had requests for it all! No judgement :)
Everything that is shared will be kept 100% confidential.